Pam’s Dating Profile

Name

Pamviles (Pam for short)

Gender

male, looking for a woman to love and marry

Contact

WhatsApp: +86 17602866219

Polish number: +48 792470212 (for calling only)

Email: pamviles@163.com

Instagram: pamviles_art

Birth/Hometown

1990.2.19 ( I look younger even compare to other Chinese )

Dongguan (in between of Guangzhou and Shenzhen), Guangdong (the most depveloped province), China 

Current Residency

Warsaw, Poland

Physical Appearance

170cm tall; around 60kg weight, kinda slim.

I don't have any body hair below my neck, because I've been using laser since 2018.

Languages

English, Cantonese, Mandarin Chinese. All fluent level.

Nationality

Chinese

Education

Bachelor degree in Mathematics, I can be quite logical sometimes.

Career

Artist, content creater, landlord

​Health Condition

All physical healthy, no allergies to anything.

Maritual/Children Status

Single, no children

Finacial Situation

I have basic income around $1400 by renting out some properties in China. I also have other incomes from art and other business. I know it's not much, but enough to live in China.

I have a 5-floors house building all to myself (each floor is about 70m2) in China, enough space for two people.

I have my own car, I can drive us to different cities to travel, to enjoy beautiful beach and mountains.

Smoke or Drink

I don't smoke or drink, like a lot of Asian, our gene lack ALDH2, so my body can't process alcohol.

Religious or no

No

Interests and Hobbies

• Reading: classic literature such as Shakespeare, Oscar Wilde,etc; philosophy; science(history of quantum physics and others); history.

• Movies: sci-fi; real-story based movies; and many others. I like to watch movies with the one I love, and cuddling her.

• Museums: art museums and galleries, other historic museums.

• Theater: I enjoy all kinds of stage performance, I used to write plays.

• Walking in the park or by the river. It's nice to enjoy some nature after a day's work.

• Jogging and swimming, I really like sea.

• Picnic: there're some beautiful parks in my hometown to have relaxing picnic.

• Road trip: I always want to drive to travel across China with my future wife.

• And many more!

My Personality

In my perspective, I think I'm

• very open-minded, willing to embrass new ideas and different cultures, able to admit I could be wrong.

• creative. Being able to create, either art or writing, is one of the most important thing to give me the meaning of life and fullfillment.

• rather intelligent and logical, maybe because my major was maths in university. When there's a problem in life, I'd rather try to solve it than just complaining.

• can be romantic when with the right person. I did a lot of silly romantic things for the girls I fell for.

• kind and caring for the one I love.  

• extrovert when I need to. I used to be very shy, but then I realized we only live once, so I try to force myself to get out of my comfort zone.

• honest and straight-forward. I prefer to hear honest opinion even if it hurts rather than some nice but untruthful comment. There's a very thin line between honest and rude, and people sometimes easily confuse them.

• willing to try everything new as long as it doesn't do huge damage to myself or the society. The passion of life lies in trying new things!

• most Cantonese people can be quite practical when it comes down to real-life situation such as money expense. I think it's because many products in the world used to made from my hometown, so we know how much they actually cost. And they think it's rather stupid to spend way much more than its worth. we call it IQ tax.

I believe people change with time and situation, at least in my case. Sometimes I can be very logical, other time can be quite implusive and emotional. 

My Flaws

• I don't have OCD, I just always like to keep things organized; care a lot about hygiene. It can be annoying for some people.

• I have Recurrent Major Depressive Disorder, it's been going on since early 2022. My episode normally last for a week, then I get back to normal, it happens almost every month, in summer is better, but winter in Poland can make it worse. But if I have a partner around, I would be better. That's why for me, being present and having physical touch is very important.

• I don't make much money, I'm more into creating value to my life rather than making money, but I will love you with everything I have if I can find the right person. But if you're more into material lifestyle, I'm not your type.

Diet Type

Mix diet, I can almost eat everything, but no fish.

Lifestyle

• I don’t smoke or drink;

• I normally sleep around 10-11pm and wake up around 6-7am;

• I normally cook at home (I can cook for you everyday);

• I’m a very hygienic person;

• I like to keep things clean, tidy and organized. (if you don’t like cleaning, I will do it);

• Trying to have a healthy lifestyle.

What I'm looking for

Serious relationship, hopefully marriage. If I can find someone who can share connection and willing to get married, I'd love to marry her. 

Love language

Physical touch! When it comes to someone I love, I really enjoy holding her hand and cuddling her. physical touch is very important to me.

Opinion about having children

Not sure yet.

Idea about marriage life

• ​We should live together, even before getting married. Being present is very important to me.

• I prefer to have a relatively equal relationship in our marriage, no matter in family role or financial contribution.

• We respect each other, always have open and honest communication.

• Marriage shouldn't be competitive, one should not have power over another. We grow together, support each other in our hobbies, careers, and personal interests. Also emotionally.

• We should always be honest with each other, but not prying each other's privacy. We can share our secret in our own pace, not by forcing.

• If there’s argument, we can argue constructively, we need to learn to compromise sometimes, and to forgive. Don't hold grudge on each other.

• We show kindness and careness toword each other, don't take it for granted but appreciate the efffort of one doing for another.

• We share quality time together, whether it’s through shared hobbies, travels, or simple daily routines, I like to cuddle.

• I don’t mind doing the household chores if you don’t want to. I have some robots in my house to clean the floor.

• We share financial contribution to the family together as much as we can. If one makes more can contribute more, vise versa. we can be transparent about finances and plan together. Setting budgets, saving for future goals, and discussing financial decisions openly.

• Life is unpredictable, and being able to adapt to changes and support each other through various life stages is crucial.